Overcoming the Starting Problem: How Small Changes Can Reduce Friction Using Nudge Theory for ADHD

Updated on October 29, 2024

byJ. Benjamin D'souza

Overcoming the Starting Problem: How Small Changes Can Reduce Friction Using Nudge Theory for ADHD

How often do you sit at your desk and just mindlessly stare at your screen? In the back of your mind, you know you ought to do something, but that doesn’t translate into actually doing it. You feel some kind of resistance that you can’t quite pinpoint.

Maybe it’s anxiety, overwhelm, or indecision. It could be one thing or a mix of everything. So, you just keep staring at the screen. Seconds turn into minutes, and minutes turn into hours. Eventually, you realize you haven’t done what you set out to do for the day.

But what if all of this could change? What if your anxiety or overwhelm could be eased with just a little structure—a small nudge?

A Little Introduction to Nudge Theory

In behavioral science, there’s a concept called Nudge Theory. It has an obvious name, and well, it’s a theory that suggests how minor changes can alter the way we do things. Richard Thaler, a behavioral economist, coined this idea.

One of the key principles of Nudge Theory is:

If you want to get people to do something, make it easy.

Behavioral science plays a key role in understanding why we act in certain ways—and why we don’t. It helps us recognize the barriers that stop us from taking action and how small tweaks in our environment can encourage better behavior.

The Starting Problem

Every task we complete starts with one thing—initiation. But starting a task can be incredibly difficult, even for things we genuinely want to do. Even people who don’t generally struggle with procrastination experience resistance when beginning a new task.

The act of starting is often the biggest hurdle.

The reason? Our brains perceive effort as a threat, and anything that requires cognitive effort can trigger avoidance. This is why people delay workouts, put off studying, or ignore emails. It’s not necessarily laziness—it’s resistance to the discomfort of starting.

Freedom of Choice and Being in Control

One of the reasons people resist tasks is because they feel a lack of control. When you’re overwhelmed with choices, you feel paralyzed. The brain doesn’t like uncertainty, so it defaults to avoidance.

But when you design your environment to reduce friction, you give yourself a sense of control over your actions. This is where nudges come into play. They gently push you towards the right choice without forcing it upon you.

Designing Nudges to Nudge Yourself

The way choices are presented influences decision-making. This is called choice architecture—structuring choices in a way that encourages a desired outcome.

For example:

  • If you want to start exercising in the morning, lay out your workout clothes the night before. This small action reduces friction and makes the decision to exercise easier.

  • If you want to focus on deep work, use website blockers to nudge yourself away from distractions.

  • If you struggle to start tasks, break them into smaller steps. The first step should be so easy that it feels effortless (e.g., "Open the document").

These small adjustments don’t force action but make the path of least resistance the right path.

Applying It to Your Work

Nudging can be particularly useful for work and productivity. Here’s how you can apply it:

  • Set default behaviors – If you want to write more, make opening your writing app the first thing you do when you start your computer.

  • Use commitment devices – Tell a friend your deadline or schedule focus blocks in your calendar.

  • Remove barriers – If you need to read more, keep books within reach. If social media is a distraction, log out or remove apps from your phone.

The easier you make it to start, the more likely you are to follow through.

Better Decision-Making

Good decisions don’t always come from willpower alone. They come from designing your environment in a way that naturally leads to better choices.

Nudging isn’t about removing free will—it’s about making good decisions the default choice. When you remove unnecessary friction and make the right choices effortless, you set yourself up for success.

Long-Term Benefits of Nudge Theory in Personal Growth

Small nudges, when consistently applied, lead to long-term behavior changes. Over time, these small changes accumulate and create lasting habits.

Instead of waiting for motivation, you design systems that make progress inevitable. You move from fighting resistance to effortlessly starting tasks.

Final Thoughts

You don’t need a complete overhaul of your habits to be more productive. Sometimes, all you need is a small nudge in the right direction. Make it easy to start, and everything else will follow.

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